Sunday, March 29, 2009

Change---A new new feeling!!

Back in 2007 world felt the change where investors were getting bullish...sensex chanting higher tones each day...international politics started looking for the buzz word "change" in OB...
Back then, all the changes seems to be invited and world seems to be living happy ever after...rich were getting richer...poor were getting 2 min loans (forget the defaulters :) )...
But the change did occurred. The market saw the worst recession ever due to financial institutions break down, the international politics did welcomed OB only to feel doubtful about it after 100 days of oath. The change now is looked upon as a cause where people are busy finding target to point their blame. Opposition pointing ruling, investor pointing institutions, poor pointing rich, rich pointing richer.

Excuse me for all the intellectual talk above, but the contrast in the behavior to look after the "change" is what compelling me to think over again. Having read millions of times "life is all about change, accept it and move ahead" then why do we behave differently for each change we face? Isn't that's life?

Though its not like I am saint, facing nonchalantly, smiling faced, no blinks and say "..chalta hai..yahi zindagi hai..". No. But a change flux did made me change my attitude. There are few things that I would like to share here about it

1) Change is not the action, it is reaction!!
Of lately I used to resist the change. I used to think its the external factors that bring about the changes. Its actually the other way round! Think of movie "Luck By Chance". Do you really think that it was the luck that Vikram (protagonist) finally got his break to one of the all time hits (though that actually didn't seemed to be :P ). I guess it was his actions, that he flirted Shabana in the party, to create networking, which actually helped him out finally. Success was the "change" in his life, that is reaction to his efforts :)

2) Change is not the end, its the beginning of the Chapter!!
Usually people feel their rubaru with change either when they evaluate their efforts or when time throws light on it. When the change is positive (in positivity I mean the changes that doesn't much affect the course of things around but adds to its freeflow), it is well forgotten and things keep on flowing as usual, but when the change is negative sun sets in the background, darkness looms, clouds grounds and we keep on looking for new avenues where things shall be back same as they use to be. It is well said "The change that doesn't kill you, only makes you strong".

3) Change is always in line of your thoughts!!
So if a change is eating you up, its sure that you bought the ingredients to make it more spicy :). Going back to bollywood, "Kisi Chiz ko Agar Dil se chaho to saari kaaynat tumhe use milane me lag jaati Ha".... so true na!!
The life after college is not that anymore, but is not less anyway. I started feeling the change in every day life. Some are big, some are small, but I did started thinking of the changes those use to get unnoticed. I started looking for the actions that I made for the reactions I see. I started looking more deep into the cause of those actions. I started looking for the factors that affect those causes. And I always found it was only me who have the rein of my life to take it where I feel is the world of mine.

Change is illusion.....it is "the new new feeling" to everyday life


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